La forma de comunicar un mensaje tiene un gran impacto en como lo recibimos.

How to communicate a message for the best results.

Hello, hello! Did you find astral travel interesting ? This week it’s a bit more mundane, but I think it’s necessary. And I’ve already talked about these topics in previous posts (I recommend this one on communication ). This week we’re going to talk about how to communicate things . We’re not going to touch on (or only very briefly) the topic of cell phones; I’ve talked about them quite a bit. We assume you’ve already learned some topics, so let’s take it a step further. I’m going to try to share how to communicate things, because really, and especially depending on the person, it can have a big impact on the way the message is received .

I want to say that I’m no expert, and like everyone else, I’ve learned through lessons. However, working with people, seeing more than one generation pass, and the lessons I receive as I expand my spiritual development have helped me realize things. I have a lot to learn, things I can’t even imagine, surely, just like everyone else. It’s one of the reasons we’re on this dense plane of duality. But I know that, between my own life experience and learning from working with other people, I want to write a post like this because I know it can help someone. Besides, some of this knowledge is from astral lessons, and those are good to share.

Listen! Just focus on this right now. I’m warning you.

Did you notice the way I said that was odd? It’s certainly not my way of writing.

It’s better to know how to communicate things, and I’ll try to explain that below if you want to keep reading.

Much better this way, and I’m sure you, the reader, will like it much more. I could warn you that if you say things abruptly, for example, you could hurt the person. Or, for example, if my posts had titles like those, you might not like reading this blog. And well, this is what I’m really going to talk about; it’s not that mysterious. I’m not going to say it will be short, because they don’t usually, but hey, it will be short, hehe (although it ended up being long again).

When you have to say something you don’t agree with or don’t like.

It’s sometimes difficult to express your own feelings, and depending on your personality, it can be easy to practically impossible. But it’s important to know that you can express your point of view without making the other person feel attacked or questioned. Today, because of the internet, people have become ruder and colder. What was essential a few decades ago (hello, please, thank you, goodbye) is increasingly becoming obsolete. People have become accustomed to only sending instant messages and sometimes don’t realize that an email, a formal letter, or even a face-to-face conversation isn’t the same as a text message.

It’s important to know the origin of what you don’t like about the person, examine it to understand it, and make decisions based on that. By knowing the person, you’ll always know how to say something gently. When you’re about to say something you don’t like, you’ll know why, and you might even feel like it might help the other person. For example, you wouldn’t say to your best friend, «I’m sick of all the beers every Saturday; this is a taco.» You also wouldn’t continue drinking beers this way if you’ve grown tired of it. You could say, «What do you think if, for example, tonight we go see a movie? That way we don’t just go out for beers, or we’ll get a beer belly, hahaha.»

Get to know the person, but for real, not just through messages and emojis.

The above is a great way to tell a friend not to overindulge in beers. You might even have a laugh. But if your friend has had or has a weight problem, low self-esteem, etc., you should know so you don’t accidentally hurt this person. You’ll mess up sometimes, even when you’re trying to do it right, but it’s a process. The important thing is to have the intention to do it right.

If you know the person and listen to them, you can learn a lot from them. Everyone has their own way of communicating things, but also of understanding them. This is why there are sometimes so many conflicts, whether in the family, at a professional level, or even at a national level. But with the people around us, we can avoid many disagreements if we stop and listen to that person. We also have to listen to what our own conscience has to say, and silence is very useful for that . When a person knows themselves , they will have far fewer verbal conflicts, especially if they have empathy when communicating their messages.

You have to know how to teach so that others listen to you and learn what you want to communicate.

As I said at the beginning, I’m not a language expert or anything like that. I’ve been learning a few things, and I’m going to share them. And speaking of sharing, it’s very important that when you explain something, you also know how to communicate it. You have to know the person’s level of understanding of the topic. Normally, avoiding jargon helps a lot. But if you want someone to learn something, you have to express it well. Whether it’s a skill, or that another person is toxic, etc., it doesn’t matter.

Sometimes, when you’re trying to teach, you can lose patience and get angry. That’s not good; you have to put yourself in the shoes of the person trying to learn. We’ve all had a hard time learning or accepting something in this life, haven’t we? So, first, once you know the person, you have to know how to communicate or explain the topic you’re covering. Because each person learns differently, and you want that person to be receptive and learn well what you’re trying to teach.

This can be further improved if done this way.

En vez de ir por el típico camino, «No, eso está mal», hay que tener un acercamiento positivo. Por ejemplo, me dice una persona «bueno, siento que no tengo intuición porque mi plexo solar esta bloqueado»: Yo le podría decir, «Bueno, eso será tu tercer ojo, que es el de la intuición.» O incluso, una persona borde podría decir «ese chakra no es, que no te enteras.» Pero, yo diría: «Creo (la humildad es buena) que te estás refiriendo al tercer ojo porque es de la intuición. El plexo solar es tu poder personal, y auto-estima. Quizás pienses que este chakra esta bloqueado porque tu propia auto-estima no te deja seguir los consejos de tu intuición. Si trabajas el chakra del plexo solar, y ya que estás del tercer ojo, podrás mejorar tu intuición.»

Ya sabéis que soy muy directo, lo sabéis por las lecturas que os pueda hacer, al igual que cuando doy un mensaje en el pronóstico. Pero por ejemplo, si tengo que decir algo importante, o una mala noticia, lo hago con delicadeza. No adorno las lecturas, porque eso es perjudicial (aquí puedes leer cómo es una buena lectura). Pero si que por lo menos aviso, y empiezo a dar soluciones si tengo que «soltar un bombazo.» Cuando son auténticas, no todas las lecturas son positivas. Igual que la vida misma.

Un mismo mensaje interpretado de muchas formas.

Cuando estás enseñando o ayudando a alguien, tienes que darle valor a eso. Tienes que sentirte bien porque esa persona a acudido a ti, o tú tienes la oportunidad de ayudarla. Esto no significa que seas mejor o peor que esa persona. Somos todos almas teniendo una experiencia humana. Por lo que somos iguales. Está claro que tu vas a saber más de algo que otra persona. Esa persona también sabrá más de algo que tú. Por ello, no debes dejar que el ego te conduzca sólo «porque sabes más.»

El mejor profesor es aquel que se pone en los pies de su alumno. Llevo más de diez años explicando (mínimo una vez a la semana) algo de los chakras, o del cuerpo astral. Sin embargo, eso no significa que la persona que venga mañana, reciba un trato pobre «porque es muy básico.» No lo es para la persona que pregunta, de lo contrario, ¡no preguntaría! Probablemente, sea la primera vez.

Lo que ya sabemos.

We all know this, I’m not saying anything new. All human beings sometimes forget this. When you’re going to communicate something,  think twice . A very basic lesson, but one that absolutely anyone can forget sometimes. Get to know the person, say things sensibly and gently. Remember that we are all the same and no one is better, no matter their soul, car, appearance, or opportunities. As you can see, it’s simple, and with a little effort, you can greatly empower your connections, making people appreciate you more, and you appreciate them too. It’s simple.

You just have to know how to say things well (and how).

Well, communicating things in the best possible way is what brings the best results, but since each person is different, it’s no guarantee that the outcome will be optimal. Especially if you don’t know the person. That person may even have a problem and act (usually aggressively) toward you. However, in most cases, when the person’s anger subsides, they will apologize (or should).

However, as you get to know that person, you’ll know what they might misinterpret and avoid them. Anyway, I hope this has helped you a little. Next week’s forecast , which will be the first Wednesday of the month, and what’s more, it’s the first day! Let’s see how this month goes, but anyway, I’ll let you know next week. See you next Wednesday! I hope you have a great week! I’ll be back next week.

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Lots of light and love,

I wish you much abundance! ( Home )

Rev. Fernando Albert